guyz.. after a looong time. ok i have been working since a long time; also considering personal reasons, decided to take a break and be at home. but my god! being a house wife is just PAINFUL. you have to cook; you have got n number of utensils to clean; you have to arrange the beds both in morning and at nights; make sure that things are in their places; wash clothes - i mean put them in machine, he he he; and etc. etc. bend nimirudhunga.. am just wondering what will happen when i have a kid. ooh!
besides looking after these husbands is so tough you know. they are so dependent on the woman at home for everything. they demand for a hot cup of Tea as soon as out of bed, expect us to cook properly (come on!), take care of their home, entire activities. ivanga office poradhukku nama first yelundhu tiffin coffee panni vakkanum-idhu yepdi irukku. aargh! no wonder these men want some women secerataries always. but my hubs is an exception tough ;-)
but i do find some nice things - i have a lot of time to relax; i break rules; look after the house and make it more beautiful; spend time with neighbour kids and pets; gossip with friends and mom; read a lot; oru vari vidama newspaper padikka mudiyudhu; watch TV; sleep in the afternoons; keep eating and eating something or the other; no previous day hangovers; concentrate on my hobbies... so those are some of the positive traits.
but as a whole, it just reminds me of my mom who took care of the home, we 3 children - that too me and my brother fight like anything; then this short tempered dad; the aged grand parents; and the pet dog. my god - now she has got the only pest - my dad and all the others have released her. thanks mom for being so good to us always!!